We’re going to have more people than ever at Thanksgiving this year! I’m really excited about it. Everyone getting together, putting aside differences, eating good food, and feeling thankful for what we have is a great way to spend a holiday. No guilt. No fighting. No anxiety around presents. Just good food and friendship. I love my birth family, but there is just no beating my chosen family.
It isn’t the case for me, but lots of people around the nation choose Thanksgiving as a sort of National Coming Out to the Extended Family Day. Everyone is there, and you can’t get accused of ruining Christmas. There is certainly a sort of logic to it.
I’m Thankful that I get to spend my holiday with people who I care about and who care about me. I’m Thankful that I don’t have to hide.